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Lesbian and Gay Weddings

Posted in: Gay Weddings

Blog-Photo-8.20.13_38f66019eb79e6ac1a7a9fc614cc7bcfVows & Kisses California Ministers are very excited to be able to continue efforts in support of gay marriages. Reverend Susan Tracy has been busy officiating gay weddings at the State Capital Rose Garden, I just officiated my first legal marriage of two beautiful women at the Palm Event Center, Pleasanton. And, Reverend Ron King officiated the first gay wedding at Indian Wells, in Palm Springs area.

I am personally inspired by Reverend Ron King’s posting, as the wedding couple’s family and friends recognized the beauty and importance of a personalized wedding ceremony. Congratulations Reverend Ron!

“Last evening, I had the pleasure of officiating at the first same-sex wedding held at the IW Club in Indian Wells, CA. The men were from St. Lewis. MO and their guests included people from St. Lewis and the Palm Springs area. One of the grooms is a well-known florist and he created the most amazing and beautiful floral arrangements for the wedding area and the banquet table. The dinner was the best I think I ever had, anywhere.

One of the guests took to the microphone before the dinner began and talked about his relationship with the men and then noted that the wedding ceremony was the most beautiful and meaningful wedding ceremony that he had ever experienced and the 30 guests started to applaud in affirmation. I was a bit overwhelmed (and loved every clap!)”

-Rev. Ron King

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All Embracing Approach to Las Arras (Unity Coins) & Lasso Ceremony

Posted in: Wedding and Ceremony Rituals, Wedding Stories

An Article By Lucinda Martin of Vows & Kisses Interfaith Wedding Minister

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The beautiful thing about an Association of Interfaith Wedding Ministers is the many wonderful ways we support each other. Today, I received a very encouraging email from Rev Ron King, the Vows & Kisses Wedding Officiant serving Palm Springs and Coachella Valley. It makes my heart sing to be witness to Rev Ron’s first couple choosing to include the Coin and Lasso ceremony. And, for him to receive such positive feedback brings joy:

Dear Lucinda;
I finalized a wedding ceremony for the third couple that I will officiate for at the Brookhaven Country Club in Palm Desert, CA. Their ceremony includes two “new-to-me” rituals: Thirteen Gold Coins and the Lasso rituals. I worked with information from the Vows & Kisses e-manual, put together these rituals within the context of the wedding ceremony and emailed a draft of the whole service to the couple. Here is what they had to say:
“We have read the first draft of our ceremony and we would like to thank you so much! We are both very pleased with the entire thing…”
Sincerely,
Rev. Ron King

The “Arras Coin Ceremony” and “Lasso Ceremony, are both traditional for Catholic Weddings, primarily used in Spain, Latin American counties and the Philippines. Since many couples are choosing outdoor weddings or “non-religious weddings” still wanting to maintain cultural traditions, I have modified these ceremonies to be a bit more “contemporary” while still honoring the sacredness of them.

Some couples (including folks of multi- cultural or non-religious backgrounds) are including the Unity Coin Ceremony to symbolize how they will manage finances as a “team” – an important component of a healthy marriage. Thirteen coins have two symbols; for Christians they represent Jesus and the 12 Apostles and for couples desiring a non-religious ceremony number 13 is the number for a baker’s dozen, symbolizing prosperity.

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The Lasso Ceremony is selected by couples wanting to speak their vows within the sacredness of a circle – of a lasso, similar to the “Unity Candle Ceremony” in meaning of a couple being united in marriage, the blending of two families, now becoming one. Couples having a country-wedding theme use a rope, and Catholic interfaith couples select a Rosario, (large rosary made of beads or flowers).

In both rituals, typically the parents, or Best Man/Maid of Honor, or Padrinos have the honor of holding these items and bringing them to the minister when called upon. Some couples have a young person, bring them, similar to a ring bearer. These rituals bring great meaning to a ceremony and in addition to creating golden memories they provide an opportunity for expressive and creative photos.

If you would like more information about these two ceremonies, or other symbolic rituals, visit the “Rituals Page” on the Vows and Kisses website or contact us for more information. We love bringing fresh ideas for couples wanting a custom ceremony, embracing diversity and meaningful rituals.

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